Tuesday, March 13, 2012

Still not convinced?

Still not convinced world? Consider this, you spend a major portion of your life caring for an individual, who because he says he is bored, drops you like a hot potato.  He is so infatuated with this new love that he doesn't see the pain and hurt he is causing you.  At this point, he just doesn't care anymore.  Yet, he continues to come to you for help with things in life that are new to him.  Will you help him?  The softer side of you says go ahead; but the part that has been bruised and pained ignores him completely and tells him to just deal with it.  How do you go on from here?  One step at a time, with true friends and loved ones. Hopefully, you have plenty of those.

Monday, March 12, 2012

Love Lost and Found

There are too many couples in the world who suffer from love lost and found. You devote a lot of time and effort in a relationship only to have it thrown in your face when he meets someone new and exciting. However, you know that the grass is not always as green as it looks, and that the reality of life will rear its ugly head into this new fresh relationship.  Then he will be wondering, oh for the good old days and the one who understood me and pumped me up, instead of criticizing and tearing me down.  Then, and only then, my dear friend, will you feel justification.